Filial Exemplar #10. Madame Táng :
She Suckled Her Mother-In-Law
(Rǔ Gū Bù Dài 乳姑不怠)

Dramatis Personae

Madame ZHǍNGSŪN 长孙 = and elderly lady with no teeth

Madame TÁNG = her daughter-in-law

CUĪ Nánshān 崔南山 of the Táng dynasty (period 12) had a great grandmother known as Madame ZHǍNGSŪN 长孙. She was very old and no longer had teeth. Each day his grandmother, Madame TÁNG , combed the old lady’s hair, washed her face, and brought her into the main hall, where she fed her mother-in-law with her own milk, although it meant that she had to feed her own children rice gruel. Although the old lady ate not a crumb, nevertheless she passed many years in good health.

One day she fell sick, and young and old gathered about her as she announced: “There is no way that I can repay my daughter-in-law’s favors. I want all the sons and grandsons and their wives to be as filial and respectful as this daughter-in-law has been.” And truth to tell, when Madame Táng’s children grew up, they were all noted for their great filial devotion.

photo by DKJ